Positive relations with past lovers


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Positive relationships with ex’s

I was recently asked how I maintain such a solid friendship with so many past lovers. Its simple! Most people will behave in a civil fashion as long as their ego’s are not ravaged. Allow them to believe they ended it, on their terms, for their reasons. Sure it might be a slight jab to your ego but there are far worse emotional jabs one could endure. You could even help them out a little and act as a catalyst to the whole event without ever showing your hand. Not saying this is fail safe but it for sure makes the whole transition a lot more seamless. Ladies nor am I saying that this was the situation between any of you and myself. Just a generalization.

Honesty always gets the job done. Usually at the emotional expense of one or both parties.

Thats the next part of this equation. Being honest with your intentions. In the past I found myself telling people whatever they wanted to hear. I understand within the first bits of conversation a woman will usually tell you exactly what it is you need to know to get them to sleep with you. Most typical women will. Who wants a typical woman anyways, but thats a whole other talk. So they will tell us what it is we need to know… Then all of a sudden all this bull shit comes flying out of our mouths to agree with them and impress them and its a hurricane of lies. Well no wonder there so much animosity when the real you comes to the surface! If you are forth coming with your intentions with some degree of honesty then the situation should end up well. Thats most of what I know on this subject. Take it for what it is.