just randomness

You aren’t going to be her 1st, her last, or her only… shes loved before; she will love again. But if she loves you now, what else matters? Shes not perfect – you’re not either and the two of you will never be perfect. If she can make you laugh atlest once, causes you to think twice, and if she admits to being human and making mistakes, hold on to her and give her the most you can.She isn’t going to quote poetry, shes not going to be thinking about you every moment of the day, but she will give you a part of her that she knows YOU can break – her HEART. So don’t hurt her, don’t change her, don’t analyze and don’t expect more than she can give. Smile when she makes you happy, let her know when she makes you mad and miss her when shes not there. Love hard when there is love to be had. Because perfect girls don’t exist, but there’s always ONE girl that is perfect for you. Find a guy who calls you beautiful instead of hot, who calls you back when you hang up on him, who will stay awake just to watch you sleep. Wait for the guy who kisses your forehead, who wants to show you off to the world when you are in your sweats, who holds your hand in front of his friends, Wait for the one who is constantly reminding you of how much he cares about you and how lucky he is to have you. Wait for the one who turns to his friends and says,”…..that’s her.” “After a while you learn the subtle difference between holding a hand and chaining a soul, and you learn that love doesn’t mean leaning and company doesn’t mean security, and you begin to learn that kisses aren’t contracts and presents aren’t promises, and you begin to accept your defeats with your head up and your eyes open, with the grace of an adult, not the grief of a child. You learn to build all your roads on today because tomorrow’s ground is too uncertain for plans. After a while you learn that even sunshine burns if you get too much. So, plant your own garden and decorate your own soul, instead of waiting for someone to bring you flowers. And you learn that you really can endure… that you really are strong, and you really do have worth.”