For better or worse, thats life!

It seems there are always people that can bring out the best in me, yet others that will bring out the worst. How come you never hear about how great you are from others, but in fact its those who bring out the worst ing you that make you the villian to the rest of the world in all the stories they tell from a bad experiance. I think its funny how if a man has a bad date with a woman he most likely will just move on and not see her again and if a buddy goes on a date with her then he can learn for himself. However if a woman has a bad date with a man then she will tell everyone she knows to warn them away from that individual. We all have off nights, bad weeks, or even horrible years. Do we hold first impressions against and individual forever, or in some cases someone elses first impressions of that individual? I only bring this up since I became away of an idividual who did this to me several years ago when she didn’t even know the whole story of the night in question. Remember to get your facts straight. Also sometimes its better to not be a third party gossip queen trying to know best for everyone else. You never know when it will come back to bit you in the butt.